Before you say “You ruined my life…”

“If it was not for you, I would have become far more happy and successful!”…is what I have heard a lot of people saying in their some or other relationship.              

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Well! Let me explain it this way…

Haven’t we all had days when we have gone berserk on the road…driving fast, banging horn, huffing like bulls, cursing crazily and desperately trying to cross every signal on the way.

Well! On such days, you must have observed that everyone on the road seems like an obstruction…an obstacle! Everyone who is on his own way seems to be getting in your way. While some of them seem to be deliberately driving slowly, some others seem to be taking sadistic pleasure in not giving you ‘side’. Their sheer presence irritates and angers you, and how much you simply wish they were not there at all…

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Often…same thing happens in life and relationships! However, what you fail to acknowledge is that the ones you consider as a part of the ‘traffic’, are actually your…‘fellow travelers’.

They seem like roadblocks only because you are… in a hurry.

About Sandeep Atre

Sandeep Atre, PhD: Dr. Sandeep Atre is the Founder-Director of Socialigence – an organization that specializes in the development of ‘Social Intelligence’ through its focused online-courses and customized workshops on ‘observing nonverbal behavior and understanding emotions for greater interpersonal effectiveness and self-management’. (www.socialigence.net) He is also one of the Founder-Directors of CH EdgeMakers - a leading ‘Coaching and Training’ group of Central India. In his career of close to one and a half decade, he has trained thousands of students, and professionals of more than fifty organizations and institutions. He has authored two books “Understanding Emotions Logically – A layman’s guide to the foundations of Social Intelligence” and “Observing Nonverbal Behavior – An exhaustive guide to the essential skill of Social Intelligence” and has also been a noted blogger for last many years. He has also featured at various prestigious platforms as a ‘Management Speaker’ and ‘Motivational Orator’ and has also served on various advisory and editorial boards. He has earned repute for his value-additive innovation and holistic methodology in his domain.
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