Monthly Archives: January 2014

Onus is on us!

“Love is a set of relatively-permanent emotions shared equally by two persons for mutual benefit and fulfillment”…I said in a session on self-management, when asked to define love objectively. ……………… No matter how much you deny, the fact is that … Continue reading

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The happy coincidence…

It’s like…one fine day you tune into an FM channel and suddenly realize that your favorite song is playing…And then you buy the CD…only to never get time to listen to it! ……………… I always tell people “Kaamyaabi kaam se … Continue reading

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The unhappy intellectual!

Happiness doesn’t lie in attainment…it’s in ‘rationalization’ or ‘anticipation’! ……………………… I would wonder why people don’t want to face reality and rather build their cocoons and spend life inside them…avoiding questions and dreading answers! As I began working with and on people, … Continue reading

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I hope you will understand!

No one has ever said “Why don’t you understand?” without being upset!    ……………………… Being misunderstood is probably one of the most discomforting things in life! Everyone is equally pained when they are misinterpreted, misquoted or mistaken…but why? Well! We … Continue reading

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In the making…

“Love should protect…yet not deprive”!    ……………………… She said “He’s my love…he’s alone and needs me, I must be there to reduce his struggle” I said “Do support him while he is licking his wounds, but don’t wish those wounds away…don’t … Continue reading

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Don’t resolve…Solve!

When you break promises made to others, you lose reputation…but when you break promises made to yourself, you lose confidence! ……………………… Interestingly, when you resolve, then a part of your mind immediately starts revolting! The reason is simple, because both emerge from the same place – mind! … Continue reading

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