Monthly Archives: September 2019

When you get offended by every feedback, people simply give up on you.    ………. Giving feedback is as difficult as receiving it. After all, you put your ‘rapport with the person’ at stake, risk being perceived negatively, and increase … Continue reading →

अगर फ़ितरत में बेचैनी हो तो इंसान कहीं भी चला जाए बेचैन ही रहता है. ………… ज़िंदगी में कुछ चीज़ें मेहनत और शिद्दत से हासिल नहीं हो सकतीं, क्योंकि कुछ मसले ऐसे होते हैं जिनका बाहर के हालात और आसपास … Continue reading →

ज़िन्दगी में हर खोई हुई चीज़ खूबसूरत लगती है. ………… खोया हुआ वक़्त, खोए हुए रिश्ते, खोई हुई निशानियां, खोए हुए मौके – सब आज जितने हसीन लगते हैं उतने तो तब भी नहीं लगते थे जब वो साथ और … Continue reading →

In relationships, long silences are often muted screams.    ………. There are times when a person conveys pain or discomfort repeatedly, and in every which way possible. Yet the other person either doesn’t listen, or listens but ignores or doesn’t … Continue reading →

Sometimes the best you can do is to sit on that thought and let the moment pass.    ………. Yup! A moment comes when the impulse inside you fetches the deeply buried feeling, combines it with the heat of the … Continue reading →

You can’t expect to know your true self through the selfies you take. ………. ‘Knowing yourself’ is not reserved for domains of philosophy or spirituality. It has amazing utility in life. And contrary to the popular belief, it does not … Continue reading →

Sometimes, your life’s balance hinges on your ability to bear and ignore. ………. There are times when you end up getting blocked in an arrangement where you can’t change the people around you because maintaining status quo is the need … Continue reading →

You can’t go into each mind and correct your impressions made there. ………. Each one of us exists as a set of images in people’s heads. These images never (yes! never) represent our reality. They are always twisted, tweaked, morphed, … Continue reading →

Sometimes it is good to blend with the background and let someone else receive the applause. ………. To work well with people, more than a bigger brain, one requires a larger heart. It includes sharing credit, forgiving mistakes, ignoring foibles, … Continue reading →

If you want to own every room you are in, it spells ‘t.r.o.u.b.l.e.’ for your relationships. ………. Some people always want to be at the center of every circle. They sulk when the spotlight shifts. They become out of place … Continue reading →