What men should learn to understand is that when a woman smiles at them, then often it only means ‘you are interesting’ and not ‘she is interested’! 🙂
A characteristic problem with most (not all) men is that they try to read a tad too much. At times, a gesture conveying ‘I like you’ can only mean ‘I like you’ and doesn’t necessarily translate into ‘there is a spark.” or ‘would like to see you again!’ or ‘stay in touch!’ or ‘be around.’ or ‘there is more to it…’ or ‘you never know’!
And even ‘I like you’ doesn’t mean ‘I will like you forever’. It only means ‘I like you’ right now…for time being…for a specific reason…in a particular context…in the mood I am in…till I change my mind. But the issue is that such complex womanly feelings are too complicated for binary-thinking men.
And they are only too happily eager to spot an illusory thing they are searching for – a cue…a clue…a hint. What they don’t understand is that at times, it is good to simply smile back at a smile, and move on.
I know that by now, you must be asking a question – ‘How does this guy know all this’?
Well! My answer is… “Can we change the topic”! 🙂 🙂 🙂