What men should know about women!

What men should learn to understand is that when a woman smiles at them, then often it only means ‘you are interestingand notshe is interested’! 🙂      


A characteristic problem with most (not all) men is that they try to read a tad too much. At times, a gesture conveying ‘I like you’ can only mean ‘I like you’ and doesn’t necessarily translate into ‘there is a spark.” or ‘would like to see you again!’ or ‘stay in touch!’ or ‘be around.’ or ‘there is more to it…’ or ‘you never know’!

And even ‘I like you’ doesn’t mean ‘I will like you forever’. It only means ‘I like you’ right now…for time being…for a specific reason…in a particular context…in the mood I am in…till I change my mind. But the issue is that such complex womanly feelings are too complicated for binary-thinking men.

And they are only too happily eager to spot an illusory thing they are searching for – a cue…a clue…a hint. What they don’t understand is that at times, it is good to simply smile back at a smile, and move on.


I know that by now, you must be asking a question – ‘How does this guy know all this’?

Well! My answer is… “Can we change the topic”! 🙂 🙂 🙂

About Sandeep Atre

Sandeep Atre, PhD: Dr. Sandeep Atre is the Founder-Director of Socialigence – an organization that specializes in the development of ‘Social Intelligence’ through its focused online-courses and customized workshops on ‘observing nonverbal behavior and understanding emotions for greater interpersonal effectiveness and self-management’. (www.socialigence.net) He is also one of the Founder-Directors of CH EdgeMakers - a leading ‘Coaching and Training’ group of Central India. In his career of close to one and a half decade, he has trained thousands of students, and professionals of more than fifty organizations and institutions. He has authored two books “Understanding Emotions Logically – A layman’s guide to the foundations of Social Intelligence” and “Observing Nonverbal Behavior – An exhaustive guide to the essential skill of Social Intelligence” and has also been a noted blogger for last many years. He has also featured at various prestigious platforms as a ‘Management Speaker’ and ‘Motivational Orator’ and has also served on various advisory and editorial boards. He has earned repute for his value-additive innovation and holistic methodology in his domain.
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