Forget about understanding or misunderstanding, at times you question your ‘standing’ in a relationship…
You begin to wonder – where do you stand…how important are you? You feel as if you are actually being taken for granted. You can sense that the other person’s focus is elsewhere, and you feature lower in the list of priorities. But you wait because you have been promised that everything will soon be the way it used to be between you two.
To be honest, a part of you wants to confront… to demand what you think you deserve in the relationship. You want to ask the awkward questions, you want to say the hard things. But you don’t. Because deep down inside you have faith that it is just a phase. It will pass.
Well! There are times when your faith is proven to be right. But you never know. You could well be left stranded – punished for patience.
Still, in any case, you have to remember that it was your choice; and you can’t blame the other person.