Category Archives: A Trainer’s Diary

One can only be defined by the choices he makes!     ……………………… Over the years, I have realized that one thing that most people avoid doing is…‘taking decisions’! They would postpone, delegate, discuss, consult and do everything but would not … Continue reading →

In a finite life, no experience can last forever, yet the change it brings…can! ……………… There are phases in life when you simply run out of luck! Nothing seems to be going right and everything seems to be falling apart, … Continue reading →

Standing purposelessly in the balcony is almost…meditative! ……………… As I stood there, with only a section of the road visible to me, I could see all sorts of people passing by. Gradually it became a game of sorts! I started … Continue reading →

“Love is a set of relatively-permanent emotions shared equally by two persons for mutual benefit and fulfillment”…I said in a session on self-management, when asked to define love objectively. ……………… No matter how much you deny, the fact is that … Continue reading →

It’s like…one fine day you tune into an FM channel and suddenly realize that your favorite song is playing…And then you buy the CD…only to never get time to listen to it! ……………… I always tell people “Kaamyaabi kaam se … Continue reading →

Happiness doesn’t lie in attainment…it’s in ‘rationalization’ or ‘anticipation’! ……………………… I would wonder why people don’t want to face reality and rather build their cocoons and spend life inside them…avoiding questions and dreading answers! As I began working with and on people, … Continue reading →

No one has ever said “Why don’t you understand?” without being upset!    ……………………… Being misunderstood is probably one of the most discomforting things in life! Everyone is equally pained when they are misinterpreted, misquoted or mistaken…but why? Well! We … Continue reading →

“Love should protect…yet not deprive”!    ……………………… She said “He’s my love…he’s alone and needs me, I must be there to reduce his struggle” I said “Do support him while he is licking his wounds, but don’t wish those wounds away…don’t … Continue reading →

When you break promises made to others, you lose reputation…but when you break promises made to yourself, you lose confidence! ……………………… Interestingly, when you resolve, then a part of your mind immediately starts revolting! The reason is simple, because both emerge from the same place – mind! … Continue reading →

“Ya! We are back together…it’s all fine now!”… she said to me, with a far-away look in her eyes. Well!  I could see what she was searching for, on the horizon…            ……………………… When relationships hit rough patches and subsequently … Continue reading →