“If they care so much for each other then why did they get separated; and if they couldn’t stand each other then why did they fall in love in the first place! What a drama? How stupid?” …said the RJ about a couple in some reality-show!
…and then eased into playing a song with an audible smirk!
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Well! The roads to-n-fro hearts don’t follow straight-lanes of deductive reasoning & inductive logic; they are full of tortuous hairpin-bends and blind-turns…! That’s why what happens between two persons can never be understood by any third person.
No amount of science can figure out why two persons come together and why they part ways…how that symphony arises and why that warmth withers away! Seems there is a secret recipe to this magical potion, and is exclusively ‘made to order’ for each! Hence it is heights of sadistic pleasure when we start passing judgments and quoting prescriptions on a feeling so uniquely-personal to someone!
Well! Let’s not molest a private emotion like love by dragging it into public domain, and let’s not outrage its modesty by commenting frivolously on the matters of heart!
Let’s leave all ‘two persons’ alone, on their own…to decipher the mysteries of heart; and also allow them the liberty to go through tumultuous journey of emotions that, with all its ‘highs & lows’, is worth an experience!
This journey will help them explore the extent to which they can bear their pains and…chase their joys!
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Let’s stop ghost-writing people’s autobiographies…!
…for sounding funnier RJs!
About Sandeep Atre
Dr. Sandeep Atre:
• Counseling Psychologist and an internationally recognized ‘Emotional & Social Intelligence’ Expert, with experience of more than two decades in helping people ‘sort out’ and ‘excel in’ intrapersonal and interpersonal matters. He holds a PhD in Management and a Master’s degree in Psychology (www.dratrecounsels.com).
• Founder of Socialigence – a venture specializing in development of ‘Social & Emotional Intelligence’ and its offshoot interpersonal skills through workshops and an award-winning online course rooted in neuroscience and psychology (www.socialigence.net).
• Author of two books related to his domain, namely - “Understanding Emotions Logically” and “Observing Nonverbal Behavior”; and third book on various aspects of life, named “Two Paras of Everyday Wisdom”. Moreover, the collection of his Nazms and Ghazals is published as a book titled “Baat Jazbaat Ki”.
• Corporate Trainer, with experience of close to two decades. Has conducted 150+ workshops/sessions for 50+ organizations & institutions like CSC, Cummins, Piramal, Ranbaxy, Lupin, Bridgestone, Michelin, Eicher, Maruti, Force, Idea, Airtel, NBHC, SBI, HDFC, L&T, Zydus, Thapar University, Banasthali, Narsee Monjee, Symbiosis, IIFM Bhopal, Azim Premji University, Nirma, Welingkar & IBS Hyderabad.
• Co-Founder and Director of CH EdgeMakers – a leading ‘Coaching and Training’ organization of central India for more than 24 years. He has trained close to 100 thousand students for ‘Soft Skills’ & ‘Entrance & Recruitment Preparation’ (www.ch-india.com).
• ‘Management Speaker and Orator’. Has featured at platforms like TEDx, IIM, IIT, NIT, CII, YI, CII-IWN, TCS, IMA, ICAI, ECA, ISHRAE, NEN, Sahodaya, Aditya Birla Education Academy, Round Table, LinkedIn Local, Rotary International, MP State’s Teachers’ Training, Academic Staff College DAVV, Police University Rajasthan, Police Training Academy Indore & more than 100 institutions.
• Member of noted associations and boards. Has been an ‘Executive Committee’ member of Indore Management Association. Associate Editor of IMA publications. Governing Council Member of Banasthali University’s SBBJ Centre for Research in MSME & Promotion of Entrepreneurship in Women. Executive Member of IMS, DAVV Alumni Association. Member of Rotary International’s ‘Group Study Exchange’ team to Minnesota, USA. ESI Coach with FWSA Australia.
Note: For glimpses of work, watch YouTube Channel ‘Dr. Sandeep Atre at Socialigence’.
