Monthly Archives: September 2019

In life, all targets are moving targets. ………. When you are stable inside, you look for instability outside; and when you are unstable inside, you look for stability outside. But the problem comes when, at the outset, you are stable, … Continue reading →

Holding one person entirely responsible for your misery is a ‘lie’ you love to believe.  ………. There is always someone who attracts the hatred in you – a boss, a colleague, a partner; a parent, a beloved, a relative. This … Continue reading →

Don’t make people uncomfortable if they don’t follow your advice. ………. Unless you are in official capacity or have a stake in the matter, you have to let people use their right to ‘not listen’ to you even if you … Continue reading →

While giving feedback, learn to convey ‘observations’ without guessing the reasons. ………. Learn to say “I have observed that…” without adding “And you do it because…”! Yes, people receive feedback as long as they feel they have an equal standing … Continue reading →

You can’t divide life into weekdays and weekends. ………. ‘Monday Blues’ is a reality. And it has less to do with one’s vocation and more about the incapacitating mindset inherited from generations of civilized humans. It’s true that not everyone … Continue reading →

When you are really in love, you have less complaints with the world. ………. Real love isn’t about sad songs of dejected beloveds, jarring dialogues of obsessed lovers, shocking scenes of people breaking things, lonely walks of clueless individuals wearing … Continue reading →

Ambitiousness makes you restless, progressiveness keeps you inspired.        ………. It is good to get better, richer and stronger. I mean, why not? There is nothing wrong about gaining success, power and fame. Why should we needlessly glorify average existence … Continue reading →

Neither one good day makes you ‘great’ nor does one bad day make you a ‘bygone’. ………. Life can change in a day. No doubt it can. Ask a person who won a lottery or met an accident, or someone … Continue reading →

If you are going through a difficult phase, don’t extend it by making new mistakes. ………. Everyone goes through a lean patch occasionally – due to circumstances, mistakes, problems or idiocy of oneself or others. Though its duration is ‘directly … Continue reading →

If you are getting nervous, get nervous and also keep doing your stuff. ………. It’s okay to feel ‘not okay’ at times – to have that strange uneasy feeling in the stomach when concern gets mixed with sadness; or that … Continue reading →